From Pew to Prodigal: My Detour and the Call Home
Growing up, attending church every Sunday was a big family tradition that my parents made sure my brothers and I did. Our regular spot in the pew was always packed with grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins, which was cool. Honestly, back then, Sundays were mostly about hanging out with my cousins, not so much about getting closer to God. Even though Sunday school taught me a lot about theology, knowing about God is different from really connecting with Him. As I got older, I just wasn’t into church anymore, and by my late teens, I completely stopped going. That’s when I became what you might call a “Prodigal Son.” Now in my mid-forties, I’m thinking about Jesus’ Prodigal Son parable. It’s more than just a Bible story; it’s a strong reminder of how easily we can stray from where we’re supposed to be. But at the same time, it truly highlights God’s endless love, showing that He’s always ready to welcome us back, no matter how long we’ve been gone, and the amazing grace He gives His children.

Who is the Prodigal Son?
Jesus told a story about a rich man with two sons. The younger son told his dad he wanted his inheritance right away, even though his dad was still alive. His dad agreed and split everything he owned between his two sons.
Like many young people, the son was eager to explore his newfound freedoms. He packed his belongings, took his inheritance, and headed off to a faraway land to begin his new life. Without much self-discipline or maturity, he lived a wild life, spending all his money without thought or planning, eventually blowing through his entire inheritance from his father. He was flat broke. Too proud to go home, he begged a local farmer for a job, offering to feed pigs for a pittance and mere rations. After some time, the son came to a realization: even his father’s servants had an abundance of food, yet he was living among pigs and on the brink of starvation. At that point, the son decided to head back to his father, hoping for forgiveness and a job as one of his workers.
Upon his son’s eventual return, the father, who had long anticipated this moment, saw him approaching from a distance away. Overwhelmed with emotion, he ran to his son, embraced him, and kissed him. Deeply sorry, the son admitted to his father, – Dad, I’ve messed up, big time, against both heaven and you. I don’t even deserve to be called your son anymore. – But his father quickly told his servants to get the best robe and put it on him. He also told them to put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. On top of that, he ordered them to butcher the prized fatted calf, because that night they were going to celebrate his son’s return.
Meanwhile, the older son was out working in the fields. When he came back to the house, he noticed a party going on inside—lots of singing, laughing, and dancing. Confused by all the celebration, he asked a servant what was happening. The servant told him that his brother had come home and their father had decided to kill the fattened calf for a big feast to celebrate.
The older brother was angry and refused to join the party. His dad begged him to come, but the son shot back that after all his years of hard work and always doing what he was told, he’d never had a celebration thrown for him. But his brother, who had blown all his money on a wild lifestyle, came back, and they threw a huge party for him…even killing the fattened calf. Seeking to reassure his son, the father affirmed that he recognized his son’s unwavering faithfulness and that all the father’s possessions would eventually be his. But for now, this day merited celebration, for his brother, who was once lost, had been found and was now alive again!

The Prodigal in all of us
When I stopped going to church, a shift occurred: my focus drifted toward personal gratification, material possessions, and temporary enjoyment, often disregarding the impact on others and my connection with God. All that mattered was me. My selfish desires pulled me away from God, and without Him, all sorts of things went wrong. Bad relationships, destructive habits, and prioritizing myself over everyone around me.
Like the prodigal son in the Bible, I wasted the amazing gifts God gave me.
- I squandered my time, a precious gift I could have used to build a better life for myself and others, but instead, I just let it slip away.
- I ignored relationships. Family and friends are priceless gifts that deserve our time and energy, but I was so focused on myself that I didn’t appreciate the wonderful people around me.
- I missed opportunities. I had so many chances for personal growth and new experiences—new people, new places—but my self-centeredness kept me from experiencing many meaningful moments.
- I let life pass by. Each day is a gift, and we can honor it by living with gratitude and purpose. But at the time, I couldn’t see the true value that was right in front of me.
- I misused God’s gifts and opportunities. I look back at all the years I could have grown closer to God, but instead, I pulled away. Even though I never stopped believing, I decided to go my own way, thinking I could handle things without God’s help. That was a huge mistake.
Who says you can’t go home?
God has a plan for us all. Sometimes, a slight detour is needed to help us find the right path. The story of the prodigal son is a great example of someone who went off to do their own thing, focused on what made them happy, but ultimately realized they needed a major change. Even with his arrogance, he came back home ready to work as a servant. This is a lot like how we should approach God: we admit where we’ve messed up, accept His amazing grace, and agree to follow His lead. It’s about realizing that life with Jesus’ guidance is inherently more fulfilling than life apart from Him.

Beyond Forgiveness
The most moving part of the parable is when the father sees his son from a distance and immediately runs to embrace him. Even though his son had been ungrateful and selfish, the father never lost hope; he was always watching for his return. Instead of making his son approach in shame, the father went out to meet him, rushing down the road. This beautifully shows God’s incredible love for us. No matter how far or how long we’ve strayed, God is always there. He doesn’t expect us to be perfect; He sees our true hearts. If we take even one step towards Him, God eagerly comes to welcome us back into His Kingdom, offering endless forgiveness and eternal life.
In the parable, the father tells his servants to quickly bring out the best robe, a ring, and sandals.
- The robe means forgiveness, acceptance, and a restored place of honor in the family, like our renewed relationship with God.
- The ring represents authority and identity. By giving the ring to the son, the father was bestowing trust and authority and reinstating his son fully into the family. This symbolizes our identity in Christ, God’s forgiveness of our wrongs, and our re-established identity as His children.
- The sandals show the son is a free person and a true family member. At the time the parable was written, servants usually didn’t wear shoes. By giving sandals, the father publicly confirmed that his son wasn’t coming back as a servant, but as a fully restored family member. The gift of sandals to the returning son beautifully illustrates God’s grace and forgiveness toward all who repent. It signifies our new identity in Christ—no longer slaves or servants, but cherished children of God, inheriting every benefit of that relationship.
In the parable, the father’s celebration powerfully shows God’s profound happiness when a lost child comes home. God desires what’s best for us, yet He grants us the freedom to choose our own path. Even when we stumble, He holds no grudges. All God asks for is repentance: a change in direction, a sincere request for forgiveness, and a renewed faith in Him. While it’s often hard for us to extend grace and forgiveness to others after repeated mistakes, God’s boundless love is truly enough for everyone. Our role isn’t to judge or condemn those who err, but to encourage them toward God and the path of salvation.
Take a step toward God
We all mess up sometimes. But when we do, God is always there, waiting for us to turn back and ready to welcome us with incredible compassion. It’s up to each of us to take that first step towards Him, opening ourselves up to the deep love and grace He offers all His children.
Wear the Story. Share the Hope.
The parable of the Prodigal Son reminds us that no matter where we’ve been, God’s arms are always open, ready to welcome us home with radical love and celebration. It’s a powerful message of redemption, grace, and unwavering acceptance.
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